Online Romance ...
What do you need?
I decided to come up with a checklist of stuff you'll need when you decide to go into finding romance online.
1) Online Singles Habitat
First, you'll need to find a site where all singles gather... It could be SingaporeLoveLinks or any other, but I personally find SLL good...
2) A Photo
Next, you're going to need a photo, probably just a small one will do. It should be a casual photo, showing how you really look. Snap it with your camera phone or something. It'll come in handy when you create your online profile or when someone asks for it.
By the way, if you're a guy, avoid using a photo that shows you wearing little or nothing... I've seen it so often.
It does not bring good results.. really...
3) Credit Card ? Cheque ?
You'll probably need a credit card if you decide to make payment online. You might want to treat it as an investment to subscribe to the membership at SingaporeLoveLinks. It definitely gives you more benefits.
It could be your credit or debit card, PayPal, Cheques, or Bank Transfer.
They have a few payment methods available.
4) Some Guts or Some Guides
If you're new at dating, you might want to consider reading the following guides to gain some confidence...
Pickup, Dating And Seduction Guide
How to be Irresistible to Women / Men.
You might want to read them even if you're not a newbie at dating, you're sure to pick up new skills by reading them... (and stand out from the rest... which means better chances!)
Ultimately, you'll also need some guts to take the initiative to approach people, it doesn't matter if you're guy or girl. Sometimes, the other party might just be like you... waiting for things to happen.
It will only end up nothing happening... Go on and make the first click!
It's that easy! You don't need to be rich or handsome to impress, sometimes its about the things you do.
Read more about How To Attract and Meet the Woman of your Dream
5) IM (Instant Messaging)
If you haven't got yourself an instant messaging tool like MSN Messenger, Yahoo Messenger, or even Google Talk, go ahead and grab one now.
It'll come in handy when exchanging contacts. Most people don't exchange phone numbers immediately. You'll probably need to get into their IM contacts first...
6) Learn how to Talk
You're probably laughing at this, but it's true that most rejection cases are due to bad conversations or "boring" topics. Even those handsome hunks got rejected too!
But don't lose heart. Sitting there crying isn't going to help. You've always wondered how those "normal looking guys" could manage to hold the hands of those sweet young girls...
The answer is simply because they can start good conversations, talk about topics that interests the other party, and most important of all, they talk confidently.
You can do it too.. by reading the 12 Simple Rules for success in Online Dating and it should help to enhance you as a person, not only at dating, but also in your social life.
7) His / Her number
Finally, get his / her number when you feel you're comfortable chatting with that person. Talking on phone lets you further judge him / her by their voice, tone, and attitude.
Now, the rest is up to you... Meet ups..? Movies..? Dinner..? You decide...
Enjoy your Online Dating...
Cheers!
Joe
